A struggling reader is most likely a kid who slipped past the early school years and then got very good at hiding it. They memorize, they guess, they lean on others. Their foundation is like Swiss cheese and you need to fill in the gaps.
Why Older Kids Slipped Through?
Kids are incredible compensators. When reading is hard, they get clever. They memorize. They guess from the pictures. They listen closely in class so they can fake their way through the parts they can’t decode. Heck my daughter leaned on friends. There was always someone to read the directions out loud.
For a while, it works but eventually everything shifts. The pictures disappear. The books get longer. The words get bigger and stranger. Words like photosynthesis, constitution and inference start appearing. Multisyllabic words become the norm.
And all those clever workarounds? They stop working. What looks like a kid falling apart is usually a kid who was quietly holding it together for years, running twice as hard to get half as far.
The Myth That Isn’t Accurate
It doesn’t help that there’s a myth that so many of us hear when we discover the older struggling reader. The myth goes something like this: If you didn’t catch it early, you missed the reading window. It’s too late.
Well, that’s not true.
Let me tell you plainly what the research and science actually says. The brain does not stop being able to learn to read at age nine. It stays flexible. It keeps building new pathways. We call it brain plasticity. Explicit, structured, instruction, the kind that structured literacy is built on, works for older kids and teens. Heck, it even works for adults. I’ve watched adults go from reading at a third-grade level to an eighth-grade level in six months. Six months.
So why does everyone act like there’s nothing that can be done for an older struggling reader?
Two reasons come to mind. First, because it is harder. But not for the reason you think. It’s not that the brain stopped learning. It’s that your child has spent years believing they’re not good at reading. It’s the confidence that’s harder to rebuild, not the reading. Shame is the real enemy. Not the age.
Think of it this way. Your child isn’t a machine that expired. Your child is more like a clock that just needs to run a little slower to keep good time. Nothing is broken. The gears are all there. They simply need to be oiled with the right instruction, taught in the right order, one sprocket at a time.
The second reason is money. Who is going to teach all those older students to become better readers? The reading specialists are working with the kids with IEPs, not a gen ed struggling reader. The science teacher never learned how to teach reading. You might be dealing with a mindset that believes that if we ignore the problem the kids will eventually age out and graduate? There’s a lot that could be said but I’ll save that for another episode.
How to Help a Struggling Reader: 5 Tips
Well, we’ve talked about the problem but that isn’t going to get us far. It’s time to move from why to what, as in what can you do?
- Get an honest read on the actual reading level, not the grade level. Your child’s grade doesn’t tell you where their reading really is at. A seventh grader might be decoding at a third-grade level. You can ask the school for their reading assessment scores if the school uses a national referenced score such as iReady. A tutor can also do a quick informal check using CORE Assessments. Once you know the reading level, you’ll use that information to build a plan.
- Insist on decoding work, not just more exposure. This is the big one. Many older struggling readers get handed more of what already isn’t working. Read more. Read harder books. Try harder. But if a child never learned to sound out words, particularly the longer words, reading more just means guessing more. What they need is to actually be taught the code. The sounds, the patterns, the rules for how English works. That’s decoding. It’s the foundation that a struggling reader has holes in. And yes, a thirteen-year-old can absolutely learn it. In fact, when I teach older students, I frequently use spelling to determine if they know the rules. When they don’t, you see it in the spelling, and you then teach the rule. This helps ensure that you are explicit while respecting their age.
- Use audiobooks and text-to-speech to keep their brain growing while their reading catches up. Here’s something that surprises some parents. Your child’s ability to understand ideas is way ahead of their ability to read words on a page, especially if they are a struggling reader. Don’t let the decoding gap starve their curiosity. Older students still need to build vocabulary and hear complex sentence structure. Let them listen to audiobooks. Turn on text-to-speech for their science reading. Fix the reading and feed the mind at the same time. However, audiobooks without any instruction, isn’t the solution. At some point, students HAVE to learn the code.
- Find books that respect their age but meet their reading level. One of the cruelest problems for an older struggling reader is that so many easy-to-read books are written for six-year-olds. A fourteen-year-old does not want to read about a bunny going to the pond. It’s embarrassing. Look for what publishers call high-interest, lower-readability books. Age-appropriate stories, written to be more decodable. Your librarian is a gold mine here. Just ask about Hi-Low books. I just talked about graphic novels helping bridge the gap for a struggling reader while they are filling in their decoding gaps.
- Five. Protect their confidence. Being smart and reading fast are not the same thing. Your child can be brilliant and still be behind on reading. Share that with them. Keep the hard reading private, not performed in front of siblings or the whole class. A struggling reader who believes in themself will get there. It’s hard work but confidence is the fuel to keep going.
Summary
Decoding, structured literacy, explicit instruction all work together. But the thing I want you to walk away with for your struggling reader isn’t just about reading. It’s also about the reader.
Your child is watching how you react to this. When you stay calm, when you treat their struggles as a puzzle to solve, you teach them how to see themselves. Help them name their struggle without shame. Becoming a better reader is hard work because there aren’t any shortcuts.
Back in 1984, about a third of thirteen-year-olds read for fun almost every day. Fast forward 4 decades and last year, only fourteen percent (14%) do. Most of those kids didn’t decide reading was boring. Instead, reading became harder and harder, until they quietly stopped reaching for a book. So if you do nothing else this week, do this. Let your struggling reader know that their reading is like Swiss Cheese and you’re going to work together to fill in the holes.
If you’re worried that your struggling reader has run out of time. The science behind how to improve reading doesn’t expire. An older struggling reader can still become a better reader. If you’d like a hand, building a plan for your child, I offer a free fifteen-minute consultation. No pressure, no pitch. Just two people figuring out the next step. You can find it over on my contact page.